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Enjoy the simple things in life. Treasure every moment and live like there is no tomorrow. Take the high road always no matter how hard.

She didn’t understand that. “How can anyone be afraid of love?”
“How can they not?” His face was completely aghast. “When you love someone… truly love them, friend or lover, you lay your heart open to them. You give them a part of yourself that you give to no one else, and you let them inside a part of you that only they can hurt—you literally hand them the razor with a map of where to cut deepest and most painfully on your heart and soul. And when they do strike, it’s crippling—like having your heart carved out. It leaves you naked and exposed, wondering what you did to make them want to hurt you so badly when all you did was love them. What is so wrong with you that no one can keep faith with you? That no one can love you? To have it happen once is bad enough… but to have it repeated? Who in their right mind would not be terrified of that?

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Real love

What makes love real. I always wondered what it would feel like. I fell in love, fully immersed myself in it until I had a rude awaking. I wanted it so bad to be true and pure for me that I settled with an illusion of love. It seemed so real to me and he was very convincing that I actually believed in it. So much that I made him my world, and each day I let myself fall for his lies the more I lost myself. I was under the pretense of what genuine love should have been. Now that I look back, it wasn’t the love I wanted, needed or even deserved. It’s frustrating though to think I could let myself be played and hurt by one person I once believed loved me. It’s so frustrating to feel helpless, cheated, and betrayed. To find out that from the start the whole relationship was a sham. It hit me hard. Now I know better, learned a few lessons, learnt to trust my instincts. I will be ok. I will find that one real love I’ve always wanted and most important someone that deserves my love.

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Insomnia

So it’s late at night and I have a early morning shift starting at 7 am. I can’t get to sleep, it feels as if my mind is on hyper speed and running on infinite thoughts. My hearts racing, my breathing is heavy and I’m anxiously trying to sleep. Sometimes one gets sentimental and reminisce on how life could of turned out differently with an alternate life. One with a different job, boyfriend/lover/husband, or children. Sometimes I imagine a different life I would of had but then I think to myself that it wouldn’t be me and would I even be happy.

Steamed Pompano in banana leaves. Seasoned with ginger, lemongrass, kefir
 leaves.

Steamed Pompano in banana leaves. Seasoned with ginger, lemongrass, kefir
leaves.

Pork asado.

Pork asado.

I spent so much time
loving you, that I forgot
how to love myself.

—"A Haiku about Mistakes" (217/365) by (DS)

Despondency

There comes a time when you start to realize everyone is getting married or married already and popping out babies left and right; or they either they have prestigious carriers and taking life changing adventures. Then you start internalizing and pondering what have I done with my life. Emotions fluttering swiftly around and with it a sense of regret, maybe jealousy even but more envy. How I wish sometimes to go back and start from scratch; to live more, love deeper, laugh harder, take more risk and even try things that scare me. It’s one of those days today. The sky is in swirls in many shades of grey with the sun peeping behind a haze of cotton candy clouds. It’s blindingly beautiful and depressing at the same time. Then I think to myself I need to make a change. Take a leap of faith and start to change my future. To forget all the hurt I’m feeling, all my disappointments and shortcomings. I will never be able to get back the time I have lost but I can always make time; make time to be open to love, meditate, to forgive myself, spend more time with the people that mean the world to me, don’t fear change, jump into adventure and laugh like there’s no tomorrow.